What's NOT to like about being the wife of a medical doctor. He is in a way to become a Ex mormon. Take a breath, stop and think, is it worth destroying so many lives so you can step in and take the rewards after someone else does the hard work. I am the same good faithful woman I always was, just on a different path than I ever expected, one full of insights and blessings I never knew could exist. Find some small proxy act of affection that can be done regularly to say that he cares about you, and that can be kept sacred as a stand-in for everything else that's missed. She found the perfect Mormon guy, they were married in the temple. Anecdotes vs a much larger sample size.
There are plenty of marriages between Mormons and non-Mormons. LDSdotOrg is mostly propaganda. Girls then struggle to reconcile degenerate popular culture with Mormon expectations. As I grew and became confident, I learned how to deal with social awkwardness. We can also save our errant children by our valiancy too. Marrying a non-Mormon is not something you do it is something that happens. I recommend that talk. Doesn't leave many options here though but better than constantly having them push the church on you until you either give in and convert or break up. My husband is more relaxed now - even with 14 hour days - and yes, I am starting to feel like he is "coming back". You'll have to get use to the running late, the tire man, weeks without communication, dinner alone, and unanswered texts and phone calls.
I feel like I am under the microscope. Initially I thought he would join the church and life would get back on the only track I knew. Living in an interfaith, marriage can be hell. I know some people don't like the sound of "working for a relationship", but it can be so rewarding. He was home alone on his one day off while I took off with our kids to visit family states away.
Don't try to fill the silence and rush to say something like "but I know you are super busy. The common theme here form the complaining spouses is that few of them seem to have their own lives. I think you should start by having some very honest conversations. My experience with non members has been so much more meaningful and caring. There are two ways to go about this. It has already taken him us 3 years since he got out of school and finally just matched this year. They may need much more than casual contact with the church to see the truth in it.