If it feels good, anything goes! Cisgender men and people assigned male at birth have a prostate , so in these cases a butt orgasm results from stimulating the prostate. You can stimulate the P-spot through the perineum, which is the runway of skin between the balls and the anus. This is how anal orgasms work for cisgender women and people assigned female at birth. Anal penetration indirectly stimulates the A-spot in the vagina. The A-spot, or anterior fornix if you want to get fancy, is located deep inside the vagina — around 5 or 6 inches in. It feels like intense waves of pleasure that begin deep inside your body and radiate through the rest of your body.
What About Dudes?
Lots of guys get squirmy when the topic of prostate play comes up. I totally understand. Once upon a time, I felt that way too. Then, one fine day, something happened that changed everything. A day that will live in infamy.
Fact #2: Anal stimulation isn’t just for gay men.
Orgasms are amazing, euphoric and energizing. Anal orgasms can feel even better than genital orgasms. Primarily, they can be experienced in two ways, by people with a prostate men and people without a prostate women. When men have anal orgasms the experience is more intense many say doubled than a genital orgasm. When coupled with a prostate massage, the anal orgasm becomes even more intense. This also helps decrease the refractory period. Normally it can take a man 20 to 30 minutes to get erect again after the first orgasm. With a prostate anal orgasm, the time may be reduced down to five or ten minutes. Prostate play can also increase the amount of cum generated from orgasm, although the fluid can be a little thinner. Including a prostate massage with an anal orgasm carries the benefit of reducing the rate of prostate cancer.
It helps propel semen from the penis. Helping someone achieve one of these mind-blowing orgasms is pretty awesome, too. The prostate is located about two inches inside the rectum , between the rectum and the penis. Although entering through the anus is the most direct way, you can also stimulate the prostate indirectly through the perineum, or taint. The perineum is firmer near the front of the penile bulb, which is the inner ending of the shaft. You may not be able to actually feel the gland, but touching it will likely cause the sensation of needing to pee.